Friday, October 10, 2025

MODULE 4: The pessimistic view of old age

What is it like to be old?

  1. Jane Goodall  (91) -- primatologist, advocate for animals, raising awareness about climate change
  2. George Etzweiler (98) -- runner, former professor, still devoted to wife
  3. Mary in Pennsylvania (98) -- enjoying the senior center, lonely at home, cutting up junk mail
  4. Folks at a senior center --  WATCH

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Views of old age


  1. Pessimistic view of old age -- Simone DeBeauvoir (The Coming of Age)
  2. Optimistic view of old age -- Cicero (On Old Age), Carstensen
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  • when referring to her can say "Beauvoir"
  • you only need the "De" when saying the whole name 
  • 1908-1986
  • novelist, social theorist, philosopher, most famous philosophical work: The Second Sex (a feminist classic)
  • partnership (romantic, philosophical) with Jean Paul Sartre, the existentialist
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The Coming of Age (published in 1970, when she was 60)


Start with the big picture:
  • How does Beauvoir see childhood and midlife?
  • How is old age different?
Chapter 7, "Old Age and Everyday Life" -- annotated here

Childhood, youth, even middle age (READ p. 491)
  • "life is experienced as a continual rise" (p. 491)
  • you are "advancing towards a goal" (p. 491
  • your projects require a future
  • projects: raising a family, supporting a cause, writing a book, becoming a better runner

Old age (READ p. 491)
  • "Then all at once a man discovers that he is no longer going anywhere, that his path leads him only to the grave" (p. 491)
  • "the idea of advancing towards a goal was a delusion" (p. 491)
  • this is an insight, but it makes the rest of life worse
Is there any hope for any old people?
  • old people can make themselves useful (p. 493)
  • projects begun in middle age can persist (p. 493)
  • videos: who does this apply to?
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The pessimistic picture of most old people
  • videos: who does this apply to?
learning, curiosity
  • 452, 452-453,  453,
superficial ambition
  • 454, 459
no projects
  • 460, 461, 461
seen as inferior
  • 462 (and rest of paragraph)
sink into gloom, stop laughing
  • 463, 464 ... "a world that has nothing but indifference for them"
coping by having habits
  • 469
Joy of grandchildren
  • 474, 475
Serenity? no!
  • 485
A bit of liberation, especially for women
  • 486, 488, 489, 491
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Contrast
  1. Kieran Setiya: at midlife, need to become "atelic"
  2. Simone DeBeauvoir: at midlife, make sure you have projects 
Are these incompatible pieces of advice?
We all liked Setiya's advice. What about DeBeauvoir's?