What is it like to be old?
- Jane Goodall (91) -- primatologist, advocate for animals, raising awareness about climate change
- George Etzweiler (98) -- runner, former professor, still devoted to wife
- Mary in Pennsylvania (98) -- enjoying the senior center, lonely at home, cutting up junk mail
- Folks at a senior center -- WATCH
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Views of old age
- Pessimistic view of old age -- Simone DeBeauvoir (The Coming of Age)
- Optimistic view of old age -- Cicero (On Old Age), Carstensen
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- when referring to her can say "Beauvoir"
- you only need the "De" when saying the whole name
- 1908-1986
- novelist, social theorist, philosopher, most famous philosophical work: The Second Sex (a feminist classic)
- partnership (romantic, philosophical) with Jean Paul Sartre, the existentialist
The Coming of Age (published in 1970, when she was 60)
Start with the big picture:
- How does Beauvoir see childhood and midlife?
- How is old age different?
Chapter 7, "Old Age and Everyday Life" -- annotated here
Childhood, youth, even middle age (READ p. 491)
- "life is experienced as a continual rise" (p. 491)
- you are "advancing towards a goal" (p. 491
- your projects require a future
- projects: raising a family, supporting a cause, writing a book, becoming a better runner
Old age (READ p. 491)
- "Then all at once a man discovers that he is no longer going anywhere, that his path leads him only to the grave" (p. 491)
- "the idea of advancing towards a goal was a delusion" (p. 491)
- this is an insight, but it makes the rest of life worse
Is there any hope for any old people?
- old people can make themselves useful (p. 493)
- projects begun in middle age can persist (p. 493)
- videos: who does this apply to?
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The pessimistic picture of most old people
- videos: who does this apply to?
learning, curiosity
- 452, 452-453, 453,
superficial ambition
- 454, 459
no projects
- 460, 461, 461
seen as inferior
- 462 (and rest of paragraph)
sink into gloom, stop laughing
- 463, 464 ... "a world that has nothing but indifference for them"
coping by having habits
- 469
Joy of grandchildren
- 474, 475
Serenity? no!
- 485
A bit of liberation, especially for women
- 486, 488, 489, 491
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Contrast
- Kieran Setiya: at midlife, need to become "atelic"
- Simone DeBeauvoir: at midlife, make sure you have projects
Are these incompatible pieces of advice?
We all liked Setiya's advice. What about DeBeauvoir's?